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Kathleen Serra's avatar

I was on Cymbalta, 60mgs 1xper day for 20 years. I was prescribed it for pain and initially I think it worked to take away about 50% of the pain I was experiencing. But that came at a price. It also took away my libido. It took away any pleasurable sexual sensation and that affected my marriage so much so, that after 40 years, it ended. I am 73 and this has been the worst thing to happen to me especially at my age and with my disabilities. I am now completely alone with no help from anyone, no social life and really no friends close by. When you become a 3rd wheel society completely blows you off. It's a hard reality and a cruel one too. I decided to get off the drug since I don't think it was helping anymore and with all we have learned about pharmaceuticals, I decided to get off everything, so I started being weaned off the Cymbalta under a doctor's care. We went from 60 mgs to 40. No problem. Then we went from 40 to 20, still no problem. The problems started when we went 20mgs every other day. I was horribly dizzy, nauseous and unable to function. I lost 20 lbs because I was unable to eat anything, unable to get off the sofa, to walk the dog, to do household chores. It was just awful. I'm finally off now, and the symptoms for the most part are now gone but I got very angry over the fact that a pharmaceutical drug could control my life to the point that it did. It takes over your emotions, your physical responses and I don't even know what else but I do feel that even my personality was affected. How could I have allowed this to rule me for 20 years!? My advice is to never start a drug that you don't know everything there is to know about it. I didn't understand the ramifications of taking a drug like this and now I'm paying for it big time.

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yasmina's avatar

Thank you for this piece. I do have to say CBT has been next to useless for someone whos hyper self aware (with anxiety). Somatic therapy and Brainspotting have been life changers.

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